<div id="main-content" class="bbs-screen bbs-content"><div class="article-metaline"><span class="article-meta-tag">作者</span><span class="article-meta-value">hiphopsilenc (噁臭油禿偏激邊緣醜肥宅)</span></div><div class="article-metaline-right"><span class="article-meta-tag">看板</span><span class="article-meta-value">Boy-Girl</span></div><div class="article-metaline"><span class="article-meta-tag">標題</span><span class="article-meta-value">[求助] 告白被拒絕如何不繼續喜歡她繼續當朋友？</span></div><div class="article-metaline"><span class="article-meta-tag">時間</span><span class="article-meta-value">Wed Feb 27 00:11:01 2019</span></div>
前幾天告白被打槍
想問一下大家
假如女生告白前告白後 態度都沒有變 還很樂意跟你繼續當朋友
那有辦法被拒絕之後 可以讓自己不繼續喜歡她
而跟她繼續當朋友的嗎
有沒有人真的被拒絕 還可以繼續當朋友的
但是 不是騙自己的那種
是發自內心 真的就把對方當朋友而已 沒有帶有一絲希望 沒有任何喜歡的？
我現在狀況是
想跟她繼續當朋友 因為她人真的不錯 共同話題多 很好聊
但多少還是會有點喜歡的情緒在
想問一下 有沒有辦法可以讓自己發自內心的不繼續喜歡她
如果沒辦法 那當然還是 斷絕往來最好
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</span><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">aikotoba</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 喜歡下一個</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:12
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">smallplug</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 等她有了男友，而你還能接受的時候</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:13
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">cady69</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 喜歡下一個</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:14
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">WJAider</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 有辦法啊，辦法就是其實你沒這麼喜歡他就有辦法XD</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:14
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">WJAider</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 真的很喜歡就沒辦法</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:14
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Haine</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 不要當朋友</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:15
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Basket0205</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 你怎麼看她? 最好</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:16
</span></div><span class="f2">※ 編輯: hiphopsilenc (114.34.10.181), 02/27/2019 00:19:30
</span><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Basket0205</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 如果是 那你一定不會不喜歡她</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:17
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">yunf</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 無恥者</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:18
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">gox1117</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 介紹男朋友給她阿:)</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:18
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">l23l23</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 沒辦法 為了你自己好 先找下個目標 找到之後 覺得還能</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:20
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">l23l23</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 跟她＞做朋友 你再跟她做朋友 不然你還是會把她放在第一位</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:21
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">xj65lm3</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 斷絕來往一陣子，交女友後再看看</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:27
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 應該是可以，但是要非常久的時間。如果你想要快速一點但</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:27
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">toy199133</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 喜歡對方是你的事情，可以繼續，但人生不要停滯不前</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:27
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 也不跟她完全斷絕聯絡的話，那你就把她當同性。這是認真</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:27
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 說的，同性朋友如果叫你幫忙做什麼，你可能會說幹自己想</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:28
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 辦法啦，那對她也要一樣的態度(但是當然別說幹話比較好)</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:28
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">play74tw</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 覺得這就要看你自己了吧</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:28
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 你不會主動替自己的好麻吉買早餐買咖啡張羅東張羅西的話</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:29
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: ，也不要對這女生做這些事，久了你對她的情感就會降下來</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:29
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 。她如果要你幫忙，請她先找別人，真的找不到或很緊急再</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:30
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 找你，也能避免她跟你無意間把你當工具人。如果試一段時</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:30
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 間以上方法無效，你就跟她完全斷絕聯絡吧。</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:31
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 對了，還有不要主動丟她訊息，把以往跟她聊天的時間拿去</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:32
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 做別的事：運動、上技藝課、打工什麼的都好，時間填滿，</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:33
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">zombie51012</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 尻</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:33
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 然後積極找別人聊天、認識其他女生。</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:33
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">ostracize</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 還是 斷絕往來最好</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:39
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">JessyMessy</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 你的問題，沒有辦法，無可自拔</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:44
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">ZAXUS</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 我覺得可以欸但不會刻意聯絡</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:46
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">pan19910105</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 別那麼卑微，你只會錯過更好的</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:54
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Asir0678</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 想她壞的地方會很快就冷卻了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:56
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">spiral0857</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 說當朋友都是在騙自己，心裡其實期待另一種可能</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:57
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">噓 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">fatetwister</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 會繼續陷入 我覺得是對自己沒有自信的警訊</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">fatetwister</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 好好想想怎麼提升自己 尋找興趣或新的異性</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">usa71111</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 我覺得繼續把對方當朋友的往來是比較成熟的處理方式耶。</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">usa71111</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 因為之前我也是被表白，且被告白前後，我的態度都一樣，</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">usa71111</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 但對方自己卻怕對我還有想法，所以他選擇遠離我，連話都</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">usa71111</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 不聊了，最後還離職，未離職前，只有工作上的接觸才會開</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">usa71111</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 口找我。</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">usa71111</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 但對於女方而言，我們也會覺得對方是個值得認識的朋友，</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">usa71111</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 所以不會因為被告白而尷尬就不往來。人生中為啥要為了得</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">usa71111</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 不到就把一個值得的真心朋友放棄掉啊?</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">usa71111</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 總之，自己要調整心態，遠離不是一個好方式。</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 00:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">PokeMo</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 時候未到</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:04
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">remarkand</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 千萬別聽樓上的。先跟對方保持距離，調整好自己的心態</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:08
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">remarkand</span><span class="f3 push-content">: ，提升自己比較實際。不然假裝當朋友成天情緒被人牽動</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:08
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">remarkand</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 患得患失.上上下下的，自己委屈自己，真的不用這麼卑微</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:08
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">remarkand</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 被告白的人當然會覺得可以繼續當朋友，問題是被拒絕你</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:11
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">remarkand</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 的心能不被影響牽動嗎？ 放過自己勇敢放下吧，加油</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:11
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">噓 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">nicoleshen</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 改交男友</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:12
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">jonaswang01</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 去尻尻 強行進入聖人模式 久了就不會想了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:15
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">噓 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">benedict3007</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 斷絕往來就好了 島又沒有這麼小 人家只是跟你表面客</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:43
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">benedict3007</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 套一下而已 你現在還在喜歡他的情緒一定聽不進去啦</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:43
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">tommy0472</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 我認識一個雷茲專精玩家也遇過這件事 他已經被女方封鎖</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:46
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">tommy0472</span><span class="f3 push-content">: ig了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:46
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 是的，usa71111的說法只適合被告白方，不適合你，被告白</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:50
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 分若想繼續做朋友當然容易許多，但是對告白方來說就很難</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:50
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mindy201</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 方</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 01:51
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">噓 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">TakeMyUltra</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 不可能 告白失敗就不要繼續留戀了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 02:08
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">fatfatjohn</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 封鎖杯 好好調整心態</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 02:15
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">pillowkiller</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 尻完再想想</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 02:37
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mader4444</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 先找到新女友再回來，不然你控制不住</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 02:40
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">RaiGend0519</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 斷開魂結！斷開鎖鏈！斷開一切牽連！</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 02:46
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">freener</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 真的不喜歡 有沒有當朋友就不會問了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 02:51
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">callTM</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 可以啊喜歡別人就好了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 02:58
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">andy89202033</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 放下吧</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 03:09
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">噓 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">gen001</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 當什麼朋友</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 03:40
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">gen001</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 你是自虐狂嗎？</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 03:40
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">gen001</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 換下一個啦</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 03:40
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">leon1309</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 你可以繼續喜歡他然後當朋友，只要你能有自制力</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 04:05
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">u571530</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 被拒絕不是最痛苦的，最痛苦是喜歡她還要看她跟別人親熱</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 05:02
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">u571530</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 還要裝若無其事的樣子，所以別傻了，直接斷，不會痛苦的</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 05:02
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">u571530</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 都是老司機了，這種才可以做朋友</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 05:02
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">u571530</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 老司機都亂槍打鳥，心態放很好，像這種絕不會上來問</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 05:03
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">cloudgoogle</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 斷開+1 長痛不如短痛，被告白方當然希望維持原狀</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 05:16
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">cloudgoogle</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 但這段友誼早就不是一個公平的狀態</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 05:18
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">JustOCD</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 一陣子不聯絡去找其他的</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 06:18
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Mike9</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 少了個工具人會很不方便</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 06:27
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">kenqoo810330</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 欲擒故縱啦，你表現得太專情了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 06:44
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">tomap41017</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 斷開</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:20
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">va12360</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 我沒辦法 所以我選擇保持距離</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:23
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Thunderfresh</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 不要聽USA71111 的說法，對於告白的人要脫離那種情</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:38
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Thunderfresh</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 感根本很難，斷開聯繫也許還能療傷。告白的人根本就</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:38
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Thunderfresh</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 不只是想當妳是朋友了......</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:38
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">pita30</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 笑了 拒絕人家的來教被拒絕的心裡建設</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:40
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">invidia</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 讓喜歡的情感隨時間慢慢淡掉就好</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:45
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">hungsung</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 自己現在也碰到這難題，感謝樓上們的想法建議，我知道</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:49
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">hungsung</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 自己該怎麼做了！</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:49
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">frice</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 越過那條線 就回不去了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:50
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">frice</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 個人做法是繼續喜歡 繼續當朋友 跟以往沒什麼不同 如果對方</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:53
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">frice</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 有刻意疏離 那就隨緣了 不過前提是我不會因為追求就變了一</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:53
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">frice</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 個人 始終照自己對朋友的原則在走</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 07:53
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">whitegyu</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 待在她身邊成長或許不是件壞事 但小心不要騷擾到她 也</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:00
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">whitegyu</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 小心不要讓自己沒有選擇</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:00
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">windmax1</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 絕對不要相信樓上 最好的方式就是斷絕來往</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:14
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">whitegyu</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 也不要相信樓上 做自己想做的事 但不要影響到別人</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:16
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">black13cat</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 找下一個 然後對他不冷不熱就好了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:24
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Ksang</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 找下一個阿 不然就是圈子太小 只有特別幾個異性而已</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:26
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Ksang</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 要說完全無感那不可能 只能說先去做些不同於現在生活的事情</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:30
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Ksang</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 先降低互動的熱度 假如還是沒辦法 可能真的要考慮斷了聯繫</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:32
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">omnistone</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 被告白方要繼續當朋友…是什麼得了便宜還賣乖的言論</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:38
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">ddtlau</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 自己調整心態，說不定改天就有機會了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:39
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">townspeople</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 很難 時間會讓你的感覺慢慢淡掉 但會有一陣子很痛苦</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:51
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">townspeople</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 又有點尷尬這樣</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:51
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">townspeople</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 加油吧</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:51
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">namidairo</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 不要當朋友</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 08:57
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">hjwing280</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 別傻了，你是喜歡她才騙自己還要當好朋友</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 09:08
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Murloc</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 要一點時間 慢慢就會脫離了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 09:18
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Freeicy</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 絕對是閃得遠遠地比較好，如果想當朋友就不會告白了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 09:30
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">EndGod</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 先喜歡你自己</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 09:33
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">qbeagle</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 把心思放在自己身上經營好自己</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 09:46
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">avogadro13</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 告白失敗為什麼要強迫自己不喜歡? 又不衝突</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 09:57
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">avogadro13</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 我告白失敗還是繼續喜歡 繼續當朋友 通常待久就贏了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 09:58
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">噓 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Iceballz</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 到底多想跟人家打炮阿？好好當個普通朋友不行？</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 09:58
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Iceballz</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 有話聊可以互相分享就好了啦 打炮是其他人的工作</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 09:59
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">brsyplus</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 只要有一點意思，就別想當朋友了。</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 10:01
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">david55621</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 直接封鎖了啦，幹麻自虐啊！千萬別聽某U的，立場完全</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 10:18
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">david55621</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 不一樣。</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 10:19
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">advercate</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 我做得到耶 一開始還是會有點感覺 這時候就稍微脫離（</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 10:24
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">advercate</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 晚回她訊息之類的） 久了就沒感覺繼續當朋友了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 10:24
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">iamice</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 去找尋你自己的世界吧~施主，還有下次別再用告白這招了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 10:25
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">GimO</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 肥宅才在告白的，帥哥都是幹完才討論要不要在一起</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 10:38
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">yellaw</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 幫QQ 不要見面不聯絡吧</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 10:52
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">paro</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 把重心放自己身上。做你有興趣的活動，認識新朋友，學習獨處</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 11:10
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">paro</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 不主動聯繫，不要對對方有期待，降低對方在你生活中的比重</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 11:11
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">paro</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 喜歡又不像開關，一瞬間就可以完全關閉。需要時間慢慢來</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 11:12
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">paro</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 你愈執意跟對方互動，就愈需要費力對抗你自己的心魔。加油吧</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 11:13
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">paro</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 擴展生活圈較實際，認識的人愈多，交到聊得來的朋友機會愈多</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 11:15
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">GoatFeather</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 假設你有一台洗衣機，它有洗、脱功能，今天洗的功能</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 11:24
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">GoatFeather</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 壞掉了，你會把它當好的脫水機還說壞的洗衣機？</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 11:24
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">bigstupidjan</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 推</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 11:24
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">kingingl</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 真的不太可能</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 12:20
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">TINA2215698</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 我說 你很缺朋友嗎0.0</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 14:19
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">mlblack46</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 這女的是高手</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 14:32
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">bad55qq</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 還有機會</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 14:53
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">yuanhow</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 推你的心態正確，喜歡下一個就是正解</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 15:01
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">oyasume</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 男朋友以前被我拒絕過 但還是維持原本當朋友時的相處模式</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 15:23
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">oyasume</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 現在已經交往一年半了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 15:24
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Ihk</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 朋友永遠不會變男朋友，不要浪費時間。</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 15:56
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Federerrrr</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 我花了半年才能真的當純朋友QQ 給你參考</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 16:51
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">xiangbudao</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 我不行，如果有喜歡對方的感覺不如保持距離</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 18:30
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">lovedog0731</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 我目前是對方也知道我喜歡她，然後她要我不要一直提</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 20:54
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">lovedog0731</span><span class="f3 push-content">: ，會很煩，她沒辦法跟我交往，但她也不會交男朋友，</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 20:54
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">lovedog0731</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 我一樣每天去接她下班，一樣聊天。很奇怪的一種狀態</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 20:54
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">lovedog0731</span><span class="f3 push-content">: ，雖然有87%像工具人，但沒差啦，各取所需，但等她有</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 20:54
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">lovedog0731</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 男友我們就會結束了。</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 20:55
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">kay55660</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 你覺得當朋友開心就當呀，等到哪天你發現付出的要不回</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 21:22
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">kay55660</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 來，得失心越來越重到厭倦當工具人的時候，你就會果斷刪</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 21:22
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">kay55660</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 掉她所有聯繫方式了</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 21:22
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">onizuka7kimo</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 那就是完全對你沒有意思</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/27 23:15
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">ewjfd</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 斷聯</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/28 06:25
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">Sailinlaomu</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 144樓 ID正確</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/28 15:03
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="hl push-tag">推 </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">final1120</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 最近也遇到一樣的問題</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/28 15:30
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">final1120</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 看完這串討論 覺得有幫助</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 02/28 15:30
</span></div><div class="push"><span class="f1 hl push-tag">→ </span><span class="f3 hl push-userid">rogergon</span><span class="f3 push-content">: 難，心裡想的不是單純朋友，做出來的也不會是。</span><span class="push-ipdatetime"> 03/01 05:17
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